She was ambitious when you first met her. She told you everything she
wanted to become. She told you how poor her family is and her dream to make it
in life. You loved her and married her promising her heaven and earth. She
believed and trusted you. You convinced her to have a baby first and then go
back to school or pursuing her career.
Now she has given you babies but you still keep her at home. You go out
everyday and come home calling her useless. She asks for money to buy her cream
only for you to tell her that her mates are out there making money while all
she knows is how to waste it. You don't give her money to take care of herself
but you go out there and buy lovely cars and clothes for yourself. You even
have the gut to give your secretary a market list for her to go and buy things
for your wife to cook; a big insult to any woman. Even when you allow her to go
to the market, you make sure there is no coin left for her to buy a panty for
herself. You go out there and admire all the beautiful women whose husbands
have given freedom and those whose husbands love spending on. You even lift
their skirts to see their panties and then you begin to feel that your own wife
at home is dirty. Sir, she is not dirty; she is only wearing the rags you give
her. At every slightest thing, you remind her how poor her people are and
how her father couldn't send her to school. Several times have you shattered
her already broken spirit with your words. Oga, you knew that her family is
poor and yet you walked into that humble family to pick a wife.
The question on my mind is, are you telling me your reason for marrying
her is to make her poorer? You even stopped her from inviting her parents to
your house all because you think you are god. If after you married that poor
girl, her family does not move to a higher level because of you, know that God
is not happy with you. You may not even know if you are prospering because of
her presence in your life.
Several times has she talked to you reminding you of your promise to her
and all you do is shout at her. You call her useless and yet you don't want to
give her the opportunity to prove to you that she is not useless. You stopped
her from acquiring the certificate she so dreamed of. You force her, against
her own wish, to be a full time housewife. You go through magazines admiring
great women and wishing to have one like them forgetting that a man like you is
somewhere giving them the support and strength to soar. You love good things on
women but can't stand seeing them on your own wife. Don't you think you are a
wicked man?
Can this really happen in real life, a husband was accused
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