Nigeria Ranked 4th Country With The Highest Numbers Of Slaves In The World

Nigeria Ranked 4th CountryWith The Highest Numbers Of Slaves In The World The Global Index on Modern Slavery for 2013 released [Oct. 17] rated Nigeria as the fourth country with the highest numbers of slaves in the world. 

The report shows that there are 701,032 estimated population in modern slavery in Nigeria. The range of the estimate spans from 670,000 to 740,000 salves in the country. 

India has the highest population of slavery in the world with 13,956,010; China is rated second with 2,949,243; and Pakistan third, with 2,127,132. The report showed that 30 million people are enslaved worldwide, trafficked into brothels, forced into manual labour, victims of debt bondage or even born into servitude. 

Almost half are in India, where slavery ranges from bonded labour in quarries and kilns to commercial sex exploitation, although the scourge exists in all 162 countries surveyed by Walk Free, an Australian-based rights group. Its estimate of 29.8 million slaves worldwide is higher than other attempts to quantify modern slavery. 

The International Labour Organisation estimates that almost 21 million people are victims of forced labour. “Today some people are still being born into hereditary slavery, a staggering but harsh reality, particularly in parts of West Africa and South Asia,” the report said. 

“Other victims are captured or kidnapped before being sold or kept for exploitation, whether through ‘marriage’, unpaid labour on fishing boats, or as domestic workers. Others are tricked and lured into situations they cannot escape, with false promises of a good job or an education.” 

The Global Slavery Index 2013 defines slavery as the possession or control of people to deny freedom and exploit them for profit or sex, usually through violence, coercion or deception. The definition includes indentured servitude, forced marriage and the abduction of children to serve in wars. 

The rankings for the index are generated using three variables: a composite estimate of the number of people in slavery in each country, an estimate of the level of human trafficking from and into each country, and an estimate of the level of child and early marriage in each country. 

According to the index, 10 countries, including Nigeria, alone account for three quarters of the world’s slaves. Other countries with high population of modern slavery include Ethiopia (651,000), Russia (516,000), Thailand (473,000), Democratic Republic of Congo (462,000), Myanmar (384,000) and Bangladesh (343,000). United Kingdom and Ireland tied as the least countries with low population in modern slavery.

Rape: Outcome of Depravity or a Mere Reflection of a Chauvinistic Culture?

Rape has been defined as "the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse." One of the most appalling crimes done by man, rape has been used as a weapon to humiliate and degrade would be victims. Victims of rape can either be male or female. However, I will be looking at rape where women are victims of male attackers. 

In Africa, rape has become more prevalent than ever. In Congo where there is endless conflict between militias, about 1,100 women are being raped daily (American journal of public health) with more than 400,000 women aged 15-49 raped during a 12 month period between 2006 - 2007 (AFP). While rape tends to be a norm during wars like the Congo situation, it is also a reality in peaceful societies. While western countries have stringent laws to checkmate this crime, African societies have had a hard time finding any tangible solution to this menace and operates absurd laws as a panacea for the issue. 

In Nigeria, the criminal code provides a life sentence for a rapist once a rape has been established that it took place, however the conditions on which such a claim is to be established puts a burden of proof on the victim and in the end frustrates justice. Many of such conditions such as the requirement of one or two witnesses for corroborative evidence, proof of penetration, proof that penetration is linked to the attacker or accused, and proof that penetration was without consent of the girl (section 357: criminal code) are just many of the roadblocks successfully erected by the Nigerian legal system with the help of a culture that appears more sympathetic to the perpetrator of the crime than the victim. I remember vividly the 2001 case of Sunday Jegede v. the state where the judgement held that the injury on the victim's vagina was not conclusive evidence as the requirement for corroborative evidence was not met, and the then Abia state University gang rape case that had a sitting governor, Vice Chancellor and commissioner of police denying the rape took place without proper investigation. 

Now the question is, is rape an outcome of depravity or a mere reflection of a chauvinistic culture? If the judges in Sunday Jegede vs the state were women, would the victim have found justice? If the Abia state governor, the Vice Chancellor of Abia state university and the commissioner of police were all women would they have swung to action and immediately brought the rapists to book? The answer is obvious. It is clear that a culture of male chauvinism affects laws relating to women and countries like Nigeria where lawmakers slap their female colleagues will never provide the necessary legal framework to provide true justice for female victims of rape and other crimes. I also watch on on the legal proceeding involving a young Indian adolescent who was also raped in far away India. Without bias to gender, the panel gave a good verdict to the perpetrators who sent the young girl to her early grave. 

However in this part of the continent, especially in Nigeria the complicity of security agencies make it difficult to get a clear picture of the exact number of rape cases as a result of under reporting because police themselves have been implicated in the rape of female detainees. The culture of male dominance which has been accepted as normal makes it possible for rape to continue. 

Aside this problems, the society which is more patriarchal in its outlook will blame the victim who will have to live with the stigma of being raped. 

Nigeria must do away with cultural practices that hold no value. As a signatory to the U.N charter on human rights, Nigeria must go back to the drawing board and enact laws that provide adequate punishment for male attackers as well as adequate compensation for their female victims. It is indeed disturbing that rape as a trend continues unabated. I recently read from a Nigerian Newspaper of a rape incidence of a 16 year old virgin in Lagos by three men and the now common gang rape of old women by youths aged between 17-25, show the danger of bad laws and a dysfunctional culture. Article 1(3) of the U.N charter on human rights calls for the respect of human rights for all without distinction on account of sex. Nigeria however is still undecided on the superiority of its male driven culture over laws that provide for gender equality.

 

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Reminisce...The Proposal

The ring is not an expensive stone

Nor have you got the best baritone

I am not a girl in the magazine

Or the prettiest your eyes have ever seen 

Perfect is not a language love understands 

A you and one I is all the ingredient us need

I smile when I remember those days and how you wouldn't let me be

And how unlike the others, my beauty wasn't the allure

Something about you so sweet and pure 

Then you said those two words and our lives changed forever

The table wasn't set for a five star dinner

Nor did we have scented candles for a perfect proposal

Not even a special dress, tees and jeans,you know,just the regular 

Only, this ain't regular 

“I LOVE YOU” wouldn't do To you , I'll love to say “I DO”

A cold night, thousands of stars

A decision that would bound these two hearts 

Two words ,yes, those two words “MARRY ME” 

were those words 

I will be damned if I don't 

Two words and forever is sealed.

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Nigerian, Sonia Ike Is The New Miss Black Africa UK 2013 | Winner Gets Disqualified!

Just weeks after the crowning of 21 year old Precious Okeke as winner of the pageant, the organisers have disqualified the queen and passed the crown over to the first runner-up Sonia Ike. This is what they had to say: 

The Miss Black Africa UK finals took place on the 5th of October with the judging panel made up of Ini Edo, Adebayo Jones, Sporah Njau, Jenni Steele and Kunle Lawani. The Miss Black Africa pageant is the largest ethnic pageant in the UK, with over a thousand applications received in 2013. Miss Black Africa is also the current holder of the BEFFTA Best Beauty Pageant in the UK Award. 

Miss Black Africa pageant director Dele Onabowu said ” I am sure that the girls in question did not try to flout the rules. This is a case of failing to read our terms and conditions when applying. Our online application form makes it impossible to submit your entry without first confirming that you have read and understood our terms and conditions. Next to the checkbox is a link to our terms and conditions. The Miss Black Africa organisation takes it’s rules, terms and conditions very seriously. This is an unfortunate incident for everyone involved but we have to move on from this point”. 

As a result of this development, the 2nd runner up, Sonia Ike from Nigeria has been crowned the new Miss Black Africa UK, Alexalyn Owuadey from Ghana – 1st Runner Up and Tara Daviess the 2nd Runner Up. 19 year  Old Sonia Ike has now been crowned and says that she can’t wait to start her charity project in Nigeria. The 6ft 1 model is from Imo State, Nigeria.

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Partial Lunar Eclipse to Be Seen in Nigeria and a Total Solar Eclipse!

Nigerians are expected to witness two major developments in the sky within 17 days: a partial or rather penumbral lunar eclipse around midnight today [Oct. 18], and a total solar eclipse on Sunday [Oct. 20]. 

According to reports from Discovery.com and World Time and Date, for the partial lunar eclipse, what viewers can observe is the slight darkening of the moon’s lower part as it passes through the lighter shadow right after it has risen. 

The 2013 penumbral lunar eclipse will be visible as well throughout the Caribbean, Europe, Africa and Asia. A report from Discovery.com says: “For observers in Africa, Europe and Western Asia, the eclipse will occur in the middle of the night when the moon is high overhead. The partial shading will be visible as the slight reddish dimming of the normally bright full moon.” 

According to World Time and Date, the world will experience a solar eclipse on November 3, 2013. Most parts of northern Nigeria, including Kaduna, are expected to experience total solar eclipse unlike other parts of the country like Lagos, which will experience only partial solar eclipse. 

The last time Nigeria experienced a total solar eclipse was on March 29, 2006, when most Nigerians watched in amazement as the earth experienced total darkness for a split second.

 According to Wikipedia, a lunar eclipse occurs when the moon passes directly behind the earth into its umbra (shadow). This can occur only when the sun, earth, and moon are aligned (in ‘syzygy’) exactly, or very closely so, with the earth in the middle. Hence, a lunar eclipse can only occur in the night of a full moon. A partial lunar eclipse occurs when only a portion of the moon enters the umbra. Unlike a solar eclipse, which can only be viewed from a certain relatively small area of the world, a lunar eclipse may be viewed from anywhere on the night side of the earth. A lunar eclipse lasts for a few hours, whereas a total solar eclipse lasts for only a few minutes at any given place, due to the smaller size of the moon’s shadow. 

Also, unlike solar eclipses, lunar eclipses are safe to view without any eye protection or special precautions, as they are no brighter (indeed dimmer) than the full moon itself. Partial eclipse would be visible in most parts of Nigeria between 10.53 p.m. today [Oct. 18] and 2.48 a.m. tomorrow, October 19, 2013. During the lunar eclipse today, part of the moon will skirt through only the outer edge of the earth’s shadow in what scientists call a penumbral lunar eclipse.

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Nigeria Welcomes Candidature into The UN Security Council

President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan welcomes Nigeria’s election today to a non- permanent seat on the United Nations Security Council with a total of 186 out of a possible 193 votes. 

On behalf of the Federal Government and people of Nigeria, President Jonathan wishes to convey his sincere appreciation of the support of all member-countries of the United Nations who voted for Nigeria’s election to the Security Council. 

The President believes that the endorsement of Nigeria’s candidature for the Security Council seat by the vast majority of member-countries is a glowing expression of support and encouragement for Nigeria’s active participation in the promotion of  peace, security and political stability in Africa and other parts of the world. 

This is the fourth time since it became independent in 1960 that Nigeria is being elected to the UN Security Council. It is also the second time (2010-2011 and 2014-2015) that Nigeria will be elected to the Council under the Jonathan Presidency. The President is particularly delighted by this historic victory and assures the global community that Nigeria, under his leadership, will continue to make very significant contributions towards the achievement and sustenance of global peace and security. 

Reuben Abati

Special Adviser to the President

(Media & Publicity)

October 17, 2013

As a student of international politics, i do understand the essence of being a part of such big "political fora". However, we do hope this is a good light in the right direction, and not that of a misplaced priority.

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Destination Africa. Serengeti National Park Tanzania

If you ever dream about an exotic tropical weekend away from your busy schedules or an holiday or you're interested in having the beauty of nature around you,then look no further Serengeti National Park Tanzania is what you have been searching for.

Your stay in the Serengeti is definetly going to be an unforgetable experience with Giraffes walking next to you,driving through the lions’ area and having them a jump away from your car,watching the wild best migration, walking with Maasai, watching the sun set...the list is indeed endless.

And did I mention balloning in the serengeti? Its an amazing experience! 

Here are some pictures to wet your appetite...

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Black Men, White Women, and Black Women: Part 2

I started this discuss about some thoughts on Culturally socialised  Bias’ with Specific Regard to Black Men, White Women, and Black Women being in relationship. Here is the concluding part of my story. I do hope you enjoy. 

Click here for the first part: http://www.bosydeprincessa.blogspot.com/2013/10/black-men-white-women-and-black-women.html?m=1

In, Ain't I A Woman Bell hooks proposes one theory for this common occurrence. 

"Explanations as to why marriages between white women and black men are more readily accepted than marriages between white men and black women can be found in patriarchal sexual politics. Since white women represent a powerless group when not allied with powerful white men, their marriage to black men is no greater threat to existing white patriarchal rule. In our patriarchal society if a wealthy white woman marries a black man she legally adopts his status. Accordingly a black woman who marries a white man adopts his status; she takes his name and their children are his heirs. Consequently, if a large majority of that small group of white men who dominate decision-making bodies in American society were to marry black women, the foundation of white rule would be threatened."

Furthermore, hooks notes that white women can be seen as a status symbol. Some black man beleive that unions with white women means they have achieved full assimilation and acceptance by whites.

"Those black men who believe deeply in the American dream, which is in essence a masculine dream of dominance and success at the expense of others, are most likely to express negative feelings about black women and positive feelings about white women. It is not surprising that the black male who finds self-affirmation on the terms set forth by white men would desire a white woman. Because he is living every moment of his life in competition with white men… In fact, if white men decided at any given moment that owning a purple female was the symbol of masculine status and success, black men in competition with white men would have to try and possess a purple female."

I’ve been told many times, by white man that I’ve try to seek out only in friendship, that they are not attracted to black women. This is due to our society’s large devaluation of black women. Black women are always portrayed in negative stereotypes, and to this day are still seen as unsuitable friends and undesirable sexual partners. There’s the asexual doting mammy, the promiscuous jezebel, the angry sapphire, and the black men dressed in female clothing so as to ridicule our clothing and speech, render us asexual, and “emasculate” the black man. Black men who have come to view the white women as a status symbol that must be “acquired” are those that both accept and and hope to affirm white patriarchy. Part of this system is a negative view of blacks, and a belief that men should have power over women (in this case white women).

One could argue that women are more open to interracial relationships because they have been taught to give men access to their bodies. Sexist conditioning teaches men that they have unlimited access to women’s bodies. Women are raised to believe they must attract a mate by being sexual available, subservient, and agreeable. Men have been raised to avoid women they precieve as being too forward. Events like the “Sadie Hawkins Dance”, or “The Backwards Dance”, highlight how unusual it is for women to ask out a man and that such phenomenons should only occur once a year. This could explain why relations between black men and white women are more common than white men and black women. White men are discouraged from pursuing relations with black women because this is seen as a threat to patriarchy. (See here)

Another argument has to do with western standards of beauty. Blonde hair and blue eyes are seen as the peak of attractiveness. Black men and women have both internalized this view on what is womanly and beautiful. While black women struggle to live up to this standard that shouldn’t apply to us, black men continually search for a women that’s society tells us is beautiful. The black men that claims to be exclusively attracted to white women are the same as white men who say they would never seek a relationship with a black women. Both have accepted the idea that white is better. Both have internalized this form of racism. One is hurt by it, while the other continues to reap it’s benefits. This is white-suprematist-capitalist-patriarchy.

Like hooks, I reject the idea that “black men who confess to loving white women and hating black women or vice versa are simply expressing personal preferences free of culturally socialized biases.” In addition, I don’t think that black men in relationships with white women are malicious racists. I do, however, think that one’s sexual preferences are not free from racist-sexist conditioning. Outside forces, largely the media, shape one’s sexual preferences more than one may think. It’s important for everyone to examine their biases, and attractions, and see that these things are hardly formed naturally.

Disclaimer, the intent of this piece was not to throw shade at anyone’s relationship or existence, but instead I hope to start a debate and self-examination.

Sources

1. hooks, bell. “Continued Devaluation of Black Womanhood, The Imperialism of Patriarchy.” Ain’t I a woman: Black women and feminism. Boston, MA: South End Press, 1981. 61-64, 112-113. Print.

2. Hofstadter, Richard. The paranoid style in American politics, and other essays.. [1st ed. New York: Knopf, 1965. Print.

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How to Make Money via Exporting Agricultural Produce!

Are you an African? Do you know you can make money online selling agricultural produce and charcoal? 

All you need to do is to join other suppliers on apfatrade.com and meet buyers from different part of the world. Form good trade partnership and make a good amount of money. 

What are you waiting for, join www.apfatrade.com now. . 

Apfatrade.com is a rapid growing B2B Marketplace & Agricultural Directory which connects African agricultural produce and energy product suppliers/exporters to worldwide buyers/importers.

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Laughter is the Best Medicine

Lets start the weekend with cracking our ribs with a little fun from Chuck Norris..... 

Chuck Norris won't ever experience a heart attack - the heart is not that foolish to attack him. Chuck Norris has won tennis match against a wall. 

Jokes about Chuck Norris are not funny, but all are afraid not to laugh. 

When Bell invented the telephone, there were already three Chuck Noris missed calls. 

When Columbus discovered America, Chuck Norris has already worked there as Texas ranger. 

Chuck Norris was bitten by a cobra, cobra died after 5 days. 

How many push ups Chuck Norris does? -All of them! 

Chuck Norris doesn't eat honey, he eats bees. 

Chuck Norris does not open the door, just handle bend down before him. 

When Chuck Norris does push ups, he actually pushes the Earth from him. 

They say that the tears of Chuck Norris cure cancer, lol!  Too bad he has never cried. 

The only time when Chuck Norris was wrong was when he thought he made a mistake. 

God wanted to create the Earth in 10 days, but Chuck Norris gave him only 7. 

Chuck Norris counted to infinity - twice. 

Chuck Norris is dead for 10 years know, but death is afraid to tell him his. 

Jesus knows how to walk over the water, while Chuck Norris knows how to swim underground. 

When Chuck Norris comes into the room, he does not turn on the light - he turns off the darkness. 

Chuck Norris does not hunt because the word hunting infers the probability of  failure. Chuck Norris goes killing. 

Why doesn't Chuck Norris use condoms? He does not like the smell of burning gum. 

If you can see Chuck Norris, he can see you. If you can't see Chuck Norris you may be only seconds away from death. 

Chuck Norris has already been to Mars; that's why Curiosity finds no signs of life there. 

They once made a Chuck Norris toilet paper, but it wouldn't take sh*t from anybody. Omg! 

Chuck Norris never use a watch - he decides what time it is now. * how possible is that!

Chuck Norris speaks in capital letters. 

Chuck Norris was almost elected to parliament, even he hasn't participated in the  election. *i hope not in naija election!

In case you dont know and you are reading about Chuck Norris for the first time, Chuck Norris is a legendary American actor, who became especially popular from the TV series Walker, Texas Ranger. Here he played the starring role of always-right and unbeatable Sheriff. His role spinned off whole bunch of funny jokes on his unbeatability. 

Chuck Norris is undoubtedly the strongest human being in the world, not only stronger than any man, but even the world itself. 

Hope you had a great laugh...lets the weekend begins, TGIF!

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Strictly For The Married!

Note that this article is for the good of the married and adult singles who should be preparing for marriage Our relationships are suffering and nobody wants to go into the main problems We are all chasing shadows tagging it all, “Spiritual”

Like I always tell people Every man is a fan of the vagina and every woman is a fan of the Penis. The only thing that determines how strong a fan your husband will be is your ability to make his time in there a memorable one It has nothing to do with age and class. It has everything to do with your knowledge of hygiene and body care.

How many women can boast of a clean southern hemisphere that is free from foul odour and itching?

Girl what does your man see and perceive when you are alone with him?

A lot of relationships have broken up because of this foul odour emanating from the vaginal area (guys won’t let their pastor and priest know that this is the problem). A good number of men have lost interest in sex with their wives because of the inability of the woman to take proper care of this zone.

Before I go on, I want you to stand in front of your mirror and do a little check-up. What does your vaginal area look like? Is it a forest with several animals living in it. A tiled floor Or a well trimmed garden?

Okay let me bring it down to your level. What is the condition of the hairs down there? Have you tried to find out how he likes it? If he wants to have some hairy feel? You must keep it well trimmed If he wants it hairless.  Do it for him. But make sure you go hairless without bumps as that would be saddening.

In today’s discussion, I am going to let you know those little things you do ignorantly. Thereby destroying your vaginal area, which also includes:

1. Lack of Exercise. Are you one of those who believe exercise is just for weight loss?

You are wrong. Exercise goes a long way to affect your sex life. Your man wants to have his woman fit and flexible in bed. The more weight you gain, the more difficult it becomes for your man to enjoy sex with you. Lack of exercise will make your vaginal muscles weak. 

The best exercise to improve sex is the Kegel squeeze. Which basically strengthens your PC muscles which holds up your vagina Uterus-anus-bladder and urethra. The stronger the muscles are the more intense your orgasms will be.

Try to stop urine flow when you pee. Hold the squeeze for five seconds

then release. You can also squeeze your pelvic area while cooking in the kitchen or right there in your office.

Doing 50 to 100 Kegel squeezes a day will help keep those muscles in good shape. 

Don’t do Kegels constantly because it can lead to urinary tract and bladder infections.

2. Wrong Underwear

That particular underwear looks nice doesn’t mean it is good for you. Always go for cotton under wears.

Avoid panties made from synthetic materials as they inhibit the circulation of air around the vaginal area.

Creating the damp Warm condition ideal for bacterial growth. 

Cotton is by far the best fabric to wear and if you enjoy wearing silky under wear save it for occasional rather than everyday use.

In addition to this:

3. Avoid  constant wearing of tight-fitting trousers panty hose and girdles. 

4. Poor Hygiene

I get goose pimples whenever I hear women talk about going to bed sometimes without having their bath. 

Some celebrities have even said it on national television (I UniqueSharon I can’t ) Are deodorants and perfumes supposed to take the place of a good bath in a woman’s life?

How can a normal woman sleep without a night bath? Some even sleep with their bras and panties. Ladies it is not healthy.

Smelling good outside doesn’t mean you are clean inside. Always keep your genital area clean and dry. 

5. Douching 

Please avoid those douching products in the market. They do you more harm than good. They are one of the major causes of vaginal itching. Your vagina doesn’t require cleansing other than normal bathing. 

Repetitive douching affects the normal organisms in the vagina and can actually increase the risk of vaginal infection.  Douching won’t clear up a vaginal infection.

6. Scented and Harsh Soaps

Don’t use scented or harsh soap such as those with deodorant and anti-bacterial components. There are different ranges of feminine wash in the market. These are soap-free and safer for you. Just get into your local drugstores and ask for feminine wash like Sebamed Femfresh. 

Summer’s Eve and Beauty Formula. These are affordable I don’t know what you feel about the popular Lactacid in the market. But I can tell you it is harsh for your vagina. 

7. Avoid scented Tampons and sanitary pads

Keep that can of body spray away from your vaginal area. Avoid those feminine sprays from that area. They will only lead to irritation. Coloured toilet paper and bubble baths should also be avoided. Wipe from front to back after using the toilet. This stops the spreading of faecal bacteria to your vagina. 

8. Use of Public Toilet.

I personally don’t use public toilets. I have  been able to train myself not to use them. You can do that too. But if you must use public toilets, Please always have a small bottle of antiseptic in your bag to wipe the toilet seat before use. 

Never use it on your vaginal area as that can lead to itching.

9. Indecency

Ladies,  you keep jumping from one man to the other out of greed. I want to let you know that this freelance nature could lead to your trouble.

The introduction of sperm into the vagina which has a different PH (acid/alkaline) balance to that in the vagina can lead to vaginal odour.

The earlier you learnt to be faithful to your partner, the better for you. Why should you go through your life depending on antibiotics and clotrimazole cream? They will in no distant time weaken your immune system.

You may escape it now but the result of reckless lifestyle will spring up at old age.

10. Endeavour to  have a glass of natural yoghurt everyday whenever you have vaginal itching. Having garlic as part of your diet is also recommended. Avoid too much of spicy and refined foods. Also avoid excessive washing of the vaginal area with different soap as that can only make it worse.

Like I always tell people, every man is a fan of the vagina and every woman is a fan of the Penis. The only thing that determines how strong a fan your husband will be is your ability to make his time in there a memorable one. 

Please do all within your human power to get that man to begin to enjoy sex with you. When he fingers you and all he gets is a room filled with terrible odour oozing from your vagina. He won’t try it another day, when this happens you find your man having sex just to fulfill his role as the husband and no longer because he enjoys it with you.

Some women go about complaining about their husband not being able to satisfy them in bed and do it the way they want it. Madam, how do you expect a man who loves life the way you do to put his mouth in there with all the foul smell?

A woman sent me a text telling me her husband loves her sucking him, but when it is her turn the man remembers he is a chief in his town who shouldn’t do that.  The truth is that a good number of those men still go out and do it to their girlfriends.

This is a good reason for you to tell yourself the truth about your state of hygiene and help the man to become a good husband to you.

You shall begin to enjoy sex with your spouse because that is God’s will for every marriage. 

Don’t forget there is nothing like unsanctified sex in marriage (except anal sex) However you do it with your husband or wife is acceptable before God.

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Travelling Abroad: How Favourable Is It To A Relationship?

It has become a normal saga that when people travel out of the country leaving the other partner behind, there is always an iota of doubt in the continuation of the relationship. 

Why should a relationship end because one partner went to study abroad or for business purposes. Some don’t even stay for 2months before changing. They begin to complain of busy schedules, busy bla bla bla……..and the likes. The fact is when some people get there, they feel they are in their comfort zone and they can do what they like. They feel its better to go for someone over there for a better advantage. 

Some guys begin to date white women because of their hidden agenda(getting a stay permit). Am not saying anything is wrong with dating a Whitey. Whatever the case may be, I feel distance is a test of love and it's an opportunity to know how much you will be faithful and honest to your partner. 

If you can’t be faithful due to distance, then you won’t be when you are married and busy with different assignments here and there. It all boils down to personality. 

Do you also know that 80% of people end up disappointing their partners. 10% pretend to still be in it while with someone else there. The remaining 10% try to be faithful and keep to their promise. 

So now, is it good to travel abroad while  leaving our partner behind? 

Yeah!!!for good purposes some of you would say. If this is the case, why then should there be fear in the other partner that that’s the end of the relationship or are there more reasons to it. 

Let’s discuss here please……..what do you think about this? 

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Meet The Sexiest Woman Alive!

Abeg make una look am well o. Let’s meet her first before we conclude. Meet the Sexiest Woman Alive, Scarlett Johansson was named Esquire’s “Sexiest Woman Alive” for 2013—making it the second time she’s been given the coveted title After handing Scarlett Johansson the title of “sexiest woman alive” for a second time, Esquire has released video of her cover shoot with the magazine.

The American actress, best known for her roles in Lost in Translation and The Avengers, also won the accolade in 2006. The 28-year-old recently went public with her engagement to former French journalist Romain Dauriac. It will be her second marriage. She split from Ryan Reynolds in 2010. 

In an interview with the magazine she says jealousy “comes with the territory” with a Frenchman but she prefers being with someone "who’s a little jealous.” 

Hmmm, Naija peeps, make we talk o, we get our own sexy actresses for here o, even musicians sef, to talk of models. Please o, Ain’t seeing anything sexy here or what do you think? Does she really look sexy? Even for my own mind, I know I sexy pass her....*wink!

Celebration of Love:

Notable Ghanaian actor Van Vicker share  his anniversary note on his Instagram page. 

Van Vicker is one of the notable highly paid and loved actor in the gollyhood industry.  See a snap short from his Instagram page:

 They are however blessed with amazing lovely kids...pix below:

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(Video) So Hilarious! You Need to Watch Clips from Dbanj's Trip to France

Bump into this and thought you guys might find it interesting as I did. 

We all know music star Dbanj keeps making the headlines lately. And it's no surprise, Bangalee is set to headline the 2013 Hennessy Artistry show.

It's so hilarious and who knew Dbanj was allergic to cheese and scrambled eggs..,hehehe

This video is so cool tho, enjoy!

Who Really Are You!

Who really are you? 

The best motivator you could ever have is you. You are also Your closest limiting factor. Have you ever wondered what you really need to do or you are just

following the crowd. 

Is the society dictating your identity or you are changing it? 

Some people starting making money with music, and then you realised you could try it too. Is that what you were supposed to be doing or you were looking for the easiest shortcut? 

Comedy starting making hit and you joined the queue too. 

Football started making sense as a profession and you got into it. 

Online marketing, Forex trading, Public speaking, writing or Could it be blogging, Vlogging on Utube. I know of a close pal who is making a serious wave for held via VLog.

The point here is, not saying you can’t be that but the question is are you really doing what you were born to do? 

The gift of a man maketh room for him. 

Have you tried figuring out your gift or you are a victim of carelessness? 

Fear keeps knocking and keep saying you can never make it and you limited yourself. 

You are so shy of facing your dreams so you kept it inside of you. 

You keep saying you don’t have the money,capital or resources. 

Not every of your gift need millions of naira. You can showcase and make money. You can save from your allowance or salary to start something on building yourself. You need to take a deep breathe and look deep inside of you and discovery that little thing that makes you stand out.

The truth is : “its not what you don’t have that limits you but what you have but don’t know how to use”-Steve Harris 

You can be anything you want to be as long as you try to be it. 

When you are diligent in your work, you will stand before great men and not mean men. 

There is a power in the gift you have inside of you. 

Are you doing what you love doing most or you are just following the crowd? 

Sit down and find out where your passion lies today and get into it. 

Stand unique, Stand strong. Stand different. 

Be strong. Be yourself. Be the best. 

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Book Review Wednesday: Rich Dad, Poor Dad- Robert Kiyosaki

This a true life story of two jolly friends; Mike and Robert who at the age of nine decided to start their journey of becoming rich in life. Robert’s dad is the highly educated but Poor Dad while Mike’s dad is the less educated but Rich Dad. After been rejected and classified as poor children, both Robert & Mike decided to meet the Rich Dad asking him to teach them how to become rich. Rich Dad bargained with the duo to work for him every Saturday paying them 10c/hour as a prerequisite to teaching them how to become rich. After few weeks, both friends decided to quit the job because the pay was very low. Angrily, Robert went to his Rich Dad who (as he thought) has been exploiting him by making him work hard, paying him less and teaching him nothing. Rich Dad explained he wasn’t going to teach them the way they’re being thought in school instead he’ll teach them the way life teaches. ‘Life’, he explained, ‘is the best teacher’. Here are the basic lessons both friends learned that changed their lives;
Lesson 1 – The Rich Dont Work For Money: Most people get angry at their boss not realising it was ‘fear’ that had enslaved them to the job and to money. Better it is to make money work for you instead. Many people work hard, get paid and that’s all, they wonder why they have money problems and they think more money will solve the problem. No! More money will not solve the problem but financial education will. Instead of working for money, learn how to make money work for you. Most people have a ‘price tag’ because of human emotion which is fear & greed. First, the fear of being without money motivates us to work hard and once we get that money, greed gets us to start thinking about all the wonderful things money can buy. They get up every day, go to work and paying their bills running into a trap race called ‘The Rat Race’.
Lesson 2 – Why Teach Financial Literacy?: Many people ask, ‘How do I become rich?’, ‘How do I become financially free?’. The answer is, get a strong foundation of financial literacy. Know the difference between Assets & Liabilities. The rich buy asset while the poor buy liabilities thinking they are assets. An asset is something that puts money into your pocket and a liability is anything that takes money out of your pocket. If you want to become rich, spend your life buying assets and if you want to be poor, spend your life buying liabilities. Your house is not an asset; it’s a liability unless you receive rent from it.
Lesson 3 – Mind Your Own Business:Most people work for everyone but themselves; they work for the owners of the company, the government through taxes and for bankers that owns their mortgage. Financial struggle is the result for people working all their lives for someone else. There is a big difference between your profession and your business. To become financially secure, you need to mind your own business. Your business revolves around your assets not your income or job. Start minding your own business. Keep your job but start buying assets or start building one. Types of assets; Business that do not require your physical presence (if it requires your presence, then its a job), Stocks, Bonds, Mutual Funds, Income generating Real Estate, Notes from IOUs, Royalties from intellectual properties like musics, scripts, books etc and anything that has value, produces income, appreciates and has a ready market.
Lesson 4 – The History Of Taxes & The Power Of Corporations: Initially, tax was levied to pay for war in the 17th Century and early 18th Century. In 1874, England made income tax a permanent levy on its citizen. In 1913, income tax became prominent in the USA. Historically, tax was levied against only the rich to punish them, this made the masses voted for the law and it became constitutionally legal. Although it was intended to punish the rich but in reality, it ended up punishing the people that voted for it – the poor & middle class. Thereafter, the Government appetite was so great that the tax needed to be levied on the middle class and then the poor. It is the knowledge of the power of corporation that gave the rich a vast advantage of tax over the poor and the middle class. No matter what the socialist came up with, the rich always find a way to outsmart them because the rich understands the power of money which is a subject not taught in school. Today, many people work up to 5-6months for the government (through taxes) before they make enough for themselves. The harder you work, the more you pay to the government. The only way to get out of the slavery is through a proper financial IQ. Financial IQ is made up of knowledge from four broad areas of expertise;
Accounting (Financial Literacy): The more money you are responsible for, the more accuracy is required. The ability to read financial statements.
Investing: The Science Of Money Making Money which involves strategies and formulae.
Understanding Markets: The science of supply and demand. There is a need to know the technical aspect of the market which is emotional driven.
Understanding The Law: An individual with a knowledge of tax advantage and protection provided by a corporation can get rich so much faster than someone who is an employee or a small business sole proprietor.
Lesson 5 – The Rich Invent Money: We all have tremendous potentials and we are all blessed with gifts yet, the one thing that holds us back is some degree of self-doubt, the lack of self-confidence. Excessive fear & self doubt are the greatest distracters of personal genius. After school, in the real world, its not the knowledgeable and the smart that get ahead but the knowledgeable and the bold. Learn to take risks, be bold, let your genius convert that fear into power. Some people always want to play it safe when it comes to the subject of money. We’re in the information age and the person who owns the information owns the wealth. Information travels around at the speed of light. At this age, there will be vast increase in the number of millionaires around the world. There will also be people who will be left behind. To be financial intelligent means creating your own luck, you can take whatever happens to you financially and make it better. If you want to create money or luck instead of working for it, then financial intelligence is important. The more real you think money is, the harder you work for it. If you can grasp the idea that money is not real, you will grow richer faster.
Lesson 6 – Work To Learn, Dont Work For Money: The world is filled with smart, talented, educated & gifted people and we need them everyday but do you know that less than 5% of Americans earn less than $100,000 annually? These people are one skill away from great wealth. They only need to learn and master one more skill; Financial Intelligence, and their income will jump exponentially. Workers Work Hard Enough Not To Be Fired & Owners Pays Just Enough So That Wokers Wont Quit. Always look forward to work for what you will Learn not for what you will Earn. It is often recommended that you join a Network Marketing (MLM) company to learn sales skills. The most important specialized skills are sales & marketing. The ability to communicate with another human being is the basic skill of personal success. It is better to know little about a lot and work with smart people as a team.

Getting Started

How do I get started you asked? There is a financial genius within us that we are yet to awaken because of our fear. Here are ten steps to awaken this genius & get started;

1. You need a reason greater than reality: The real compelling reason or purpose why you want to be rich.
2. Choose daily to be rich with every dollar (money) that comes into your hand. Have good spending habits.
3. Choose friends carefully.
4. Pay yourself first ( The Power of Self-Discipline): If you cannot control yourself, don’t try to get rich. Keep your expenses low, build up your asset then buy luxuries (cars, house etc) later.
5. Pay your brokers well: A good broker (Real estate or Stock broker) should provide you with good information & in turn pay them well.
6. Be an Indian giver (The Power of Getting Something for Nothing): Always know your Return Of/On Investment (ROI)
7. Assets buy luxuries: Don’t buy your luxuries on credit, instead use the income from your asset to buy luxuries and pay for it at once.
8. The need for heroes: Mentors don’t only inspire us, they also make things easy and this convinces us more to want to be like them – ‘If they can do it, so can you’. Get a mentor.
9. Teach and you shall receive: Rich Dad said; ‘If you want something, give it out first and it will come back to you in buckets’.

For more on how to get the book visit: www.amazon.com

Author: Robert T. Kiyosaki
Book Reviewed By: Bosyde Princessa
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