When I was 10, My Mom protected I and my younger ones from the harsh realities of life as much as possible... She practically built an impenetrable wall between the world and I. The only movies I was encouraged to see were Tales By Moonlight, Mr Bean, news and a few others. Other programs were heavily guided and even my friends were screened before I was allowed to hang out with them. I mean, I couldn't go for birthday parties, go to the market on my own etc..
I had this friend, Bukky who she approved of at the beginning because she was her own friend's daughter. Bukky and I became pretty good friends until one day... My Mom was going out and as usual locked the house gate and went away with the key. That way, I could come out to the balcony but not into the main compound.
Before she left, she explained that she was locking me in because there was a man-eating-dog on the loose. The dog ate only children and girls of around my age. They'd been trying to capture the dog for a while and every soldiers attempt had proved abortive, she said there's a price tag on the dog for any soldier who is able to capture it; so, I needed to stay inside, so that I won't get eaten up by this fierce dog.
About an hour later, Bukky who was around my age mate came visiting. I couldn't let her in because I didn't have the key to the gate and I was scared for her because she was exposing herself to the man-eating-dog. I told her about it and she looked at me like I was stupid and she said, "you mean you believe that dumb story, can't you see through, she said that so that you won't come out! There aren't no man-eating-dogs anywhere, if there were, it will be in the news or even the neighborhood will be talking about it. I've been out all day long and still will be out tomorrow, how could you be so gullible!"
I didn't quite believe she was right, I thought she probably hadn't been told about the Man-Eating-Dog because, it never crossed my mind my Mom could be making it up.
When my Mom came back, I told her Bukky was around and she isn't aware of the Man-Eating-Dog; Bukky didn't even believe me at all and thinks it's all Lies, I told her. . I'd never seen my Mom ın such a fierce look in my life. She was so mad and forbade me from ever speaking, hanging out or being friends with Bukky again. Reason, she was too wise for me! Ironically, when she said that, I suddenly saw my stupidity and knew Bukky was saying the truth afterall.
These things make me laught today when I remember them. It wasn't so much fun back then, but as I think about it, maybe it was for the better. I was lucky enough to escape a lot of trouble my mates got into at very tender ages.
Do you have such moment while growing up, things your parents might have said or done to stop you from doing things you would have love to do as a young child. We will appreciate if you share this.
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